Mixed dating signals
Most of the signals in this category seem to be of the male ego-bolstering kind – ones that make him believe that when he deploys a conscious plan to attract her and is also able to keep her hanging by the thread, he is actually playing her own game against her, and nailing it.However, this deliberate move, more often than not, results in unnecessary complications.There’s no solution to setting boundaries in an equation that is, in itself, undefined and muddled.The ‘is he there or not’ dilemma haunts every woman who receives mixed signals from a guy.I know, I know – stupid dating polemics – but well … They’d give you a clear thumbs up sign by having you meet his friends (and maybe, his folks too) but shall not ask you out. These guys are just trying to seek approbation from friends and family before asking you out or ensuring that you stay on the hook – hook, line, and sinker – and that is just mind-boggling, no?
Cannot decode his pattern of blowing hot and cold with you? Worried that he has slipped into a pattern of being available at his convenience?
Here’s what you need to know about reading the mixed signals from a guy, decoding them and dealing with them: 1.
Playing the game This one is the most common of the lot.
He may feel quite a bit for you but he is probably scared, trying to overcome his inhibitions, and be secure about forging a healthy relationship this time.
Probing him or pressing him further shall only push him away.